EMDR Therapy for Relationships, Social Anxiety, Conflicts, Dating, and other Social Life Challenges
EMDR therapy can help you fix your social interactions — so you can feel more secure, confident, and connected.
You may benefit from EMDR if you experience any of the following:
Social Anxiety & Overthinking:
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Fear of judgment or rejection
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Avoiding group settings or public speaking
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Replaying conversations long after they’re over
People-Pleasing & Guilt:
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Difficulty saying "no"
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Feeling overly responsible for others' emotions
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Anxiety or guilt after setting boundaries
Relationship Patterns & Attachment Struggles:
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Insecure or avoidant attachment
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Fear of abandonment or intimacy
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Repeating painful relationship dynamics
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Trauma from Past Interactions:
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Emotional neglect, betrayal, or relational abuse
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Breakups, divorce, or family conflict
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Childhood criticism or shame
Loneliness or Disconnection:
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Feeling isolated or different
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Difficulty forming close bonds
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Avoidance of emotional closeness
Even if you understand your social patterns, you may still feel stuck. That’s because the emotional pain often comes from core memories and subconscious beliefs — not logic.
EMDR helps you reprocess the root experiences that shape how you relate to others today. EMDR isn’t just about managing symptoms — it helps transform the beliefs that hold you back in relationships.
How EMDR Works
EMDR sessions are structured and focused. You’ll work through:
1. Identifying key triggers — the recurring feelings or reactions in your relationships
2. Tracing back to early memories where these emotional patterns began
3. Reprocessing with EMDR to shift the emotional charge
4. Integrating new beliefs about yourself and others
After EMDR therapy, clients often report
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More ease and calm in social situations
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Feeling safe setting boundaries
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Reduced guilt and people-pleasing
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Greater trust and intimacy
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More secure sense of identity
Why work with Ily Tsare?
Ily Tsare — EMDRIA-Certified EMDR Therapist & CBT Specialist, Ily helps individuals resolve deep-rooted emotional patterns and relationship struggles.
He works with clients facing social anxiety, emotional sensitivity, identity issues, and interpersonal stress in personal and professional contexts.
The pain you feel in relationships often isn’t just about the present moment — it’s the echo of something much older. EMDR helps bring peace to that echo.
If you are ready to take the first step, sign up for the first consultation today by filling out the form below or messaging me directly on WhatsApp. Fees start from 150 SGD per hour during off-peak hours.

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